- What should i do about this ?

- Okay so me and a girl call eachother bc's [ bestest cousins ] but we're not really cousins . We've known eachother for 9 1/2 years so we just say we are and we love eachother a lot . The other day me and her were suppose to chill but she said i couldnt come because her room wasnt clean . Today her real cousin was over but her room still wasnt clean , and i said why can she come but i cant ? & she goes '' THATS FAMiLY '' it hurt my feelings A LOT because i look at her as family . . she said it slipped out what should i do ?